Title says all.
So the other day, my friend who I’ll call Mary (y’know, that girl who got pissed at me for no good reason) told me the other day that girls actually like the opposite of the ideal man they describe.
Then, Tear said that you should date multiple people throughout your life, because you need to see the type of guys you like. It’s stupid to marry the first person you date.
Of course, the only irl friend who knows that I have a boyfriend is Lynn, who I trust the most and is my best friend in real life. I’m telling you this: I have dated two people in my entire life. First one was Jared. I was young and stupid, so when I got bored of Jared, I went for someone else, who was a complete asshole. I went back to Jared, realising that he is really the best guy I’ve known. When you decide to date other people because you feel like you need someone better, you get worse. There’s NO shame in marrying the first person you date, especially when you’re content with them. There’s too much risk of dating another person just because you need to see the type of guy you like. What if you just keep on dating people who are even worse? And the best man will find a better girl who won’t leave them because they are dating multiple people to see what they like. Smh.
I told Mary and Tear that I’m pretty sure I don’t want to marry a bad boy working at Mcdonalds. I also described my “dream” guy to them, which was essentially Jared LOL
And then they’re like, “GIRLS DON’T KNOW WHAT THEY WANT, YOU NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU DATE THEMMM”
and i’m just facepalming jfc
My advice is to not be an asshole and don’t date people for your little experiment. You should be intelligent enough to know what you want, not having to waste time on guys. Don’t be in a relationship where your goal isn’t marriage. Every guy is different. If you like that one guy you dumped the most, you will not meet that guy again. Just be with who you like. If the first guy you date is absolutely wonderful, then stay with him. There’s too much risk to go for another guy, and you shouldn’t break your own happiness.